onsdag den 28. februar 2018

De kærlige citater


”You will never find love if you don’t love yourself enough to be real. When you try to be someone you’re not, you find someone who likes what you’re not. A good relationship must be based on honesty” / Mary Jo Rapini
”Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn’t listening” / Emma Thompson
“Vi bliver konfronteret med sex og utroskab dagligt i medierne og på nettet og får tilbuddet og muligheden bare ved et enkelt klik eller via flirt på f.eks. arbejdspladsen. Men handler vi ukritisk på vores lyster og pludselige indskydelser uden tanke for vores værdier, etik, moral og vores personlige integritet, hvad er vi så, udover at være et “godt” samtaleemne på arbejdspladsen?” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“For at have et godt kærlighedsforhold, så er det ikke nok alene at fokusere på at pleje og gøde kærligheden, vi skal også hver især udvikle os som menneske, for vi kan ikke være samme udgave af os selv som 20-årig når vi bliver 45, netop fordi livets faser stiller forskellige krav til os og disse krav må vi i stedet stille til os selv, så vi ikke “vokser fra hinanden” men med hinanden i livets faser” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Vil du have mere kærlighed i dit parforhold, så skal du selv give kærlighed, ønsker du fortrolighed, så skal du selv vise fortrolighed, ønsker du ærlighed, så skal du selv være ærlig i stort som i småt, ønsker du nærvær, så skal du give nærvær, ønsker du anerkendelse, så giv anerkendelse – Tag ansvar for at kærligheden har gode vilkår og levebetingelser, ved at du selv vælger kærligheden fuldt ud, ved det du tænker, gør og siger” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Hvis du gerne vil opnå noget bestemt i dit liv, så må du se på dig selv, om du nu også er en sådan person, igennem det du tænker, siger og gør, som vil kunne opnå dette, for det er lige dér ved den person du er, at du skal tage fat, ændre og udvikle for at opnå det du ønsker i dit liv” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Appreciate your partner! It’s as simple as that. However you want to express appreciation in your relationship, do it. Do it every single day” / Lifehack
“We have such busy schedules that connecting with your partner throughout the day can be last priority, but if you want to have a happy, long-lasting relationship, reconnecting with your partner throughout the day is crucial. It can be as simple as sending a loving text during your lunch break or giving your partner a call on the way home. This habit is meant to keep the connection and focus with your partner. Even if you have a hectic schedule, you can still make the time to spend a text message or give your partner a phone call. Be creative. Think of ways that you can do to reconnect with your partner throughout the day” / Lifehack
“The habit of expressing positive attributes about your partner will help deepen the connection in your relationship. On the contrary, expressing negative attributes about your partner will only build a tall wall between the two of you” / Lifehack
“When you express respect towards your partner, you are expressing your love, acceptance, and warmth. When you express disrespect, you are expressing that you don’t accept your partner. Respecting your partner is all about valuing them for who they are, including differences” / Lifehack
“Showing respect to your partner is a habit that is worth creating, as it’s a necessary ingredient for creating a happy, healthy and long lasting connection” / Lifehack
“Throwing a fit at a restaurant, yelling on the sidewalk, or exhibiting the silent treatment at a friend’s party can all be very damaging to the relationship. Avoid making a scene in public. Instead, keep your private business just between the two of you” / Lifehack
“Don’t keep score about who earned what or whose turn it is next. Instead, focus on working together as a team to do what’s best for the relationship” / Lifehack
“Too often, people focus on what they’re gaining from the relationship rather than focusing on what they’re giving. Whether you’re happy or not, put effort into making your partner happy” / Lifehack
“One of the worst relationship habits is lying. Even those little white lies can seriously damage your relationship. Whether you aren’t honest about how much you spent on a shopping trip or where you went last, it can destroy the relationship.” / Lifehack
“Although a little teasing can lead to a good laugh, taking teasing too far can damage the relationship. Don’t embarrass your partner in front of others or continue to tease when your partner asks you to stop” / Lifehack
“The silent treatment is a passive-aggressive tactic that can harm your relationship. It is often about control and not about trying to calm down. Learn how to address your issues in a more productive manner” / Lifehack
“Spending time with friends and family is part of being a well-balanced person. However, if you spend too much time with others, you could neglect your relationship” / Lifehack
“Don’t call your mother or your best friend to complain about your partner. If you are upset or don’t like your partner’s behavior, talk to your partner directly” / Lifehack
“Don’t test your partner’s loyalty. It will likely backfire over time. Instead, focus on your own loyalty toward your partner” / Lifehack
“Pretending to agree with your partner when you don’t isn’t healthy. It can lead to anger and resentment over time. Speak up and share your feelings in a respectful manner” / Lifehack
“Ignoring problems won’t make them disappear. In fact, many problems get worse when you don’t address them. Don’t avoid your relationship problems. Instead, be willing to tackle them in an adult manner” / Lifehack
“It can be easy to nod your head or say you agree to something without ever really hearing what your partner said. Half-listening to what your partner is one of those relationship habits that can lead to a lot of problems. Work on your communication so you can truly listen to what your partner has to say” / Lifehack
“The longer you’ve been together the easier it can be to take your partner for granted. Take time to appreciate your partner every day so that you don’t overlook how fortunate you are” / Lifehack
“The best partners are people who care for their emotional, physical, and spiritual health. Take care of yourself so you can give to your relationship” / Lifehack
“Don’t nag your partner. Remember that your partner doesn’t have to do things according to your timeline” / Lifehack
“When you’ve been together for quite a while, it might seem easy to take your partner for granted. Say “thank you” more, tell them you love them, or send cute texts. Let your partner know how much he/she means to you so they never feel taken for granted” / Lifehack
“One of the most important things we can all do, whether for a relationship or not, is to develop a strong sense of empathy and compassion” / Lifehack
“You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So let them go, let go of them”
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“Life isn’t worth living, unless it is lived for someone else” / Albert Einstein
“We know from daily life that we exist for other people first of all, for whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends” / Albert Einstein
“Vil vi kærligheden så er der ingen blød mellemvej, for mig er det alt eller intet, man kan ikke kun elske en smule. Tiden må så vise om den man elsker er den rette ellers må man tage konsekvensen af dette og i stedet finde en der også vil kærligheden helt og ikke halvt” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Vil du have et godt kærlighedsliv? Så skal du give din partner al din kærlighed og ærlighed, masser af opmærksomhed, betænksomhed, nærvær, interesse, tryghed, loyalitet, fortrolighed og alt hvad det indebærer at elske et andet menneske, først dér har du valgt kærligheden”
/ Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“My girl got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and children. She lost 30 pounds and weighted about 90 pounds. She got very skinny and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the mornings and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of a break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get separated soon… But then I decided to act. After all I’ve got the MOST Beautiful Woman on earth. She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her. I began to shower her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised and pleased her every minute. I gave her a lot of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends. You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became better. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. And then I realized one thing: the woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it” / Brad Pitt
“I realized one thing: the woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it” / Brad Pitt
”Det sker der intet ved”, lød mine tanker altid, når jeg surfede på nettet efter alskens pornobilleder. Men jeg vidste godt, at jeg via pornoen i virkeligheden kom til at seksualisere mine følelser (flygte fra dem), og at hvis jeg for alvor skulle ”komme hjem til mig selv” og få det kærligheds- og sexliv, jeg altid har drømt om, måtte jeg kvitte den” / Jimmy Hansen
“Det bedste forhold er et, hvor kærligheden til hinanden overskygger behovet for hinanden” / Dalai Lama
“Knyt dig kun til mennesker med en god karakter, for det er bedre at være alene end i dårligt selskab” / Booker T. Washington
“Frihed er en meget skøn ting, men ikke, når den skal betales med ensomhed” / Bertrand Russell
“At frygte kærligheden er at frygte livet, og den som frygter livet, er allerede trekvart død” / Bertrand Russell
“Himlen vil ikke være himlen for mig, hvis jeg ikke møder min hustru der” / Andrew Jackson
“Det vi fylder vores tanker med, det afspejler sig i vores handlinger – derfor er det godt at være opmærksom på hvad vi fylder os selv op med indeni, om det er fra eller for kærligheden og det forhold som vi er i” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Som et lys der brænder uden ilt, er et kys uden kærlighed…” / Jack Clausen
“The best question in the world is still; Will this behavior propel me forward to my goals or will this behavior keep me struck?” / Christina Aros
“The only one capable of changing your attitude and emotions are YOU” / Christina Aros
“You decide what to feel and how to react. No matter what other people say or do to you. You choose” / Christina Aros
“Some people never change. They continue blaming others for their emotions. I thougth the people of today knew better by now” / Christina Aros
“Only by joy and sorrow does a person know anything about themselves and their destiny. They learn to what to do and what to avoid” / Johyann Wolfgang von Goethe
“Brug din energi på, hvordan DU kan gøre en positiv forskel for din partner og dit forhold HER OG NU, I DAG! Hvordan kan du HELT KONKRET være med til, at din partner er lidt gladere når han/hun går i seng i aften, end han/hun var da I stod op?” / Lasse Bauer
“Lykke er ikke noget man kan rejse hen til, eje, gøre sig fortjent til eller fortære – Lykken er den åndelige oplevelse der kommer af at leve hver dag med taknemmelighed” / Dennis Waitley
“I believe that the unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality” / Martin Luther King jr.
“A true marriage (and true love) is never about you. It’s about the person you love—their wants, their needs, their hopes, and their dreams. Selfishness demands, “What’s in it for me?”, while Love asks, “What can I give?” / Seth Adam Smith
“Marriage isn’t for you. You don’t marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy” / unknown
“Your marriage isn’t for yourself, you’re marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn’t for you. It’s not about you. Marriage is about the person you married” / unknown
“No true relationship of love is for you. Love is about the person you love” / Seth Adam Smith
“De mennesker der tager afstand fra selvudvikling og ikke selv mener de har brug for det, er som regel dem der trænger aller mest” / Jesper Bergstrøm
“Jo mere vi finder vores egen indre balance og vores eget  nærvær med os selv, jo mere erkender vi som regel vores sammenhæng med alt omkring os. Og jo mere opleves vores egen personlige udvikling som blot et led i denne større sammenhæng” / unknown
“Vær bevidst om at dét, du går rundt og siger til dig selv, ofte får rigtig meget magt i dit liv. På den ene eller anden måde ender det som regel med, at dét du bliver ved med at fortælle dig selv, på et tidspunkt også bliver sandt for dig. På den måde bliver vi, gennem vores tanker og overbevisninger, skabere af vores egen virkelighed” / Sofia Manning
“Marriage isn’t suppose to make you happy, it’s suppose to make you married” / Frank Pittman
“Hvordan kan vi eller den situation vi sidder i blive bedre, hvis vi er tilfredse med noget eller os selv, blot fordi at der er noget eller nogen der er værre, hvis udgangspunktet ikke er tilfredsstillende for os selv og det vi ønsker i vores liv?” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Jeg har lært at det at være med dem jeg elsker er nok” / Walt Whitman
“At holde sammen med din familie er netop dét, der gør det til en familie” / Mitch Albom
“Dine forældre var de eneste, der var forpligtigede til at elske dig; fra resten af verden skal man fortjene det” / Ann Brashares
“Hvad kan du gøre for at fremme verdensfreden? Gå hjem og elsk din familie” / Moder Teresa
“Som ung lærer man kvinden at kende gennem kærligheden, men som gammel lærer man kærligheden at kende gennem kvinden” / Roland Dorgèles
“Kysset er kærlighedens segl” / Hans Lohberger
“Et kys er ingenting og alt” / Guy de Maupassant
“Kys er, hvad der er blevet tilbage af paradisets sprog” / Joseph Conrad
“Den, som ikke føler enhver forandring i kærligheden og mærker dens tilintetgørelse, kender slet ikke dens væsen” / Pierre Leroux
“Sand kærlighed begynder der, hvor der ikke ventes gengæld” / Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
“Hvornår, hvor, hvordan skal man(d) se på kvinden som sexobjekt og ikke? Hovedreglen bør være “når hun vil!” / Adam Jensen
“No one has power over you to make you act the way you do. What you say and what you do is your own choice, and you have to suffer your own consequences from the choices you make. This is your story… make sure you love living the life you have” / Mary Jo Rapini
“Life is too precious to live it feeling bad about your choices, so be sure to take the right ones” / Mary Jo Rapini
“Life is precius, do not waste it doing anything that your heart does not respect or agree with” / unknown
“Fra den dag du kom på min vej har alle dage været skønne. Så jeg forlader dig ikke. Du fortjener at blive elsket til det sidste og at det sidste du ser i denne verden er din elskedes ansigt! / fra Private praksis
“I do not hang around anybody that I don’t want to be with. Period. For me, that’s a blessing, and I can stay positive. I hang around people who are happy, who are growing, who want to learn, who don’t mind saying sorry or thank you… and having a fun time” / John Assaraf
“Vær ikke mod andre, som du ønsker de skal være mod dig. Vær mod andre lige præcis som de har brug for… Ellers lad dem høftligt være” / Christian Campbell
“Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run from it or you can learn from it” / unknown
“Når du har forventninger til andre mennesker, så husk at fortælle dem om dem -ellers er resultatet ofte at du bliver skuffet og de bliver overrasket” / Christian Campbell
“If someone seriously wants to be a part of your life, they wil seriously make an effort to be in it” / unknown
“The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade in your reality for a role. You trade in your sense for an act. You give up  your ability to feel, and in exchange, put on a mask. There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first” / Jim Morrison
“If you hurt someone enough, they eventually fall out of love for you and if they don’t it’s because someone who raised them confused them with abuse as being a form of love” / Mary Jo Rapini
“You can’t keep hurting a person and expect them to keep loving you” / unknown
“The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy” / unknown
“Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all” / Aristotle
You don’t have to make room for people who couse you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior an makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and continues to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go” / Danielle Koepke
“Passion an satisfaction go hand in hand and without them, any happiness is only temporary, because there’s nothing to make it last” / Sparks
“The saddest people I’ve ever met in life are the ones who don’t care deeply about anything at all” / Sparks
“Today is a good day to start to be the best you possible. At the end any awareness you have will be focused on what you did or meant to someone else” / Mary Jo Rapini
“It is so refreshing when you meet someone who keeps their word. Strive to be that person for someone else” / Mary Jo Rapini
“Happiness isn’t getting what you want, it’s wanting what you got” / Garth Brooks
”Den du elsker højest er også den, der kan såre dig aller mest” / ukendt
“Kærligheden er tålmodig, kærligheden er mild, den misunder ikke, kærligheden praler ikke, bilder sig ikke noget ind. Den gør intet usømmeligt, søger ikke sit eget, hidser sig ikke op, bærer ikke nag. Den finder ikke sin glæde i uretten, men glæder sig ved sandheden. Den tåler alt, tror alt, håber alt, udholder alt. Kærligheden hører ikke op”
/ Første Korintherbrev, kap. 13, vers 1-8
“Når jeg ser tilbage, fortryder jeg dette; at jeg alt for ofte, når jeg elskede, ikke sagde det højt” / David Grayson
“Venskab bliver ofte til kærlighed, men kærlighed, der bliver til venskab – aldrig” / Charles Caleb Colton
“Ethvert langvarigt forhold er give-and-take. Der må være en vis modenhed, fordi tingene ikke kan være det samme fra det sekund, man forelsker sig, til man har været gift i 60 år. Der vokser en indbyrdes forståelse og solidaritet frem, som ikke kan knækkes” / Klaus Rifbjerg
“Ægteskabsbrud er en betydeligt overvurderet fornøjelse” / svensk ordsprog
“Sikkert er det, at lykken alene skabes af vort eget hjerte” / Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
“Mange mennesker forsømmer den lille lykke, fordi de venter forgæves på den store” / Dale Carnegie
“Fuldkommen erkendelse og fuldkommen kærlighed er et og det samme. Jo dybere indsigten er, desto inderligere er kærligheden” / Leonardo da Vinci
“En kujon er ikke i stand til at vise kærlighed; det er den tapres privilegium” / Mahatma Gandhi
“Fravær – den almindelige kur mod kærlighed” / Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra
“Det eneste vi aldrig får nok af er kærlighed. Og det eneste vi aldrig giver nok af er kærlighed” / Henry Miller
“Den største sorg i verden her er dog at miste den, man har kær” / Steen Steensen Blicher
“Da Gud ville opfinde noget som ikke var spil eller sport eller mad eller drikke, og dog var en verden af legende hvile, hvori vore sind kunne smelte og smile, da delte han mennesket i kvinden og manden, og skabte den leg de kan ha’ med hinanden” / Piet Hein
”Den umodne kærlighed siger:“Jeg elsker dig, fordi jeg behøver dig” Den modne kærlighed siger: “Jeg behøver dig, fordi jeg elsker dig” / Erich Fromm
“Det at være fortvivlet og ikke vide af at du er fortvivlet, er dog blot en fortvivlelse mere” / Kierkegaard
“Eksistensen stiller det som en fordring, at eksistensen gør krav på at du tager det rette valg i forhold til f.eks. din troværdighed, eftersom ikke at vælge også er at vælge det forkerte”
/ Lars Lilja Ekenberg
“Hvis vi ikke tager ansvar for os selv, vores liv og for vores troværdighed så handler vi i ond tro, fordi vi på denne måde bliver ligegyldig overfor os selv og dermed også overfor andre” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Vi bør alle påtage os ansvar for os selv, for kærligheden, vores liv og vores personlige integritet og kan derfor ikke afkræve det af andre, netop fordi de skal afkræve det selv samme af sig selv” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Du kan ikke blive elsket for den du er, hvis du ikke viser dig som den du er – At blive elsket for “ikke at være dig selv” er netop ikke at blive elsket” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Stolthed er sjældent kærligheden til gavn” / Jan Hessner Backe
“Ægte kærlighed kommer ikke bare, det er noget to mennesker skaber, ved at holde hinanden tæt” / Niclas Bille
“Mennesket er det eneste pattedyr, der er nået så vidt i sin udvikling, at det må have undervisning i at parre sig” / Ebbe Mørk
“Ord er ikke meget værd, hvis der ikke er handling bag. Om det er noget du lover eller undskylder så kræves det at det følges op af handling, om det er en ændret adfærd eller blot at gøre det du siger at du gør eller lade være med at gøre det som du siger at du ikke gør…. først dér giver dine ord værdi” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Don’t settle for anything less than someone committed to loving and respecting you” / Mary Jo Rapini
“Hvis jeg oplever, at et andet menneske opfører sig dårligt eller grænseoverskridende, så skal jeg være på vagt. Gør de det én gang, kan det være en tilfældighed, to gange kan være et sammentræf, men tre gange er et mønster” / Dorte Peary
“If a guy doesn’t call you, it’s because he doesn’t want to call you. If a guy treats you like he doesn’t give a shit, it’s because he doesn’t give a sh*t. Period” / fra filmen “He’s Just Not That Into You”
“Mange har den fejlagtige opfattelse, at et forhold er ligesom en æske fyldt med spændende ting, som man så bare kan tage fra efter forgodtbefindende. Men i virkeligheden er forholdet ligesom en tom æske, som man selv skal fylde ting i” / Lasse Bauer
”Overvej om det er konsekvenserne værd inden du evt. bruger mail og sms til en ”uskyldig flirt” – for selv det der forties gør skade” / Christel Sonne-Rasmussen
”Det at du får dårlig samvittighed eller forsøger at skjule noget for din partner er et skarpt signal til dig selv om at du ikke lever i overensstemmelse med dig selv” / Christel Sonne-Rasmussen
”Hvis du skriver intimt som fortroligt med andre end din partner, så træder du ud af dit forhold med en del af din bevidsthed og er dermed ikke længere tro” / Christel Sonne-Rasmussen
“Utroskab starter dér hvor man bedrager en anden, som man har aftalt “spilleregler” med, dette uanset om det er rent korporligt eller blot i tanken, drømmen eller fantasien” / Carsten Wiehe
“Vil du tale sådan til din bedste ven, din chef eller kollega, som du taler til din partner, hvis ikke, så stop øjeblikkeligt / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Er der forskel på hvilken type kærlighed du ønsker fra din partner, til den du selv giver? Det kan være vedr. loyalitet, omsorg, ærlighed, åbenhed, støtte, nærvær, troskab og forståelse” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“When someone loves you, they will never put you in a position where you feel you must sacrifice your integrity, self respect, or dignity to be with them. No matter what they say, if your partner loves you, then they are protecting your integrity, reputation and dignity at all times, just as they would protect their own” / Mary Jo Minute
“Kærlighed er også, at gøre noget for og med hinanden,
uden at det nødvendigvis tager udgangspunkt
i én selv og egne behov”  / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Kender du det, pludselig at føle dig helt lykkelig indeni, og det er ikke fordi, der er sket noget stort, det er mere de små ting, som kan føles store, det er hverdagen, manden, ungerne, kærligheden, solen, god mad, et smil, et kærtegn, tiden og nærværet, bare at være lige her lige nu, og vide at dem man elsker er til..” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“En udfordring ved at udvikle dig som menneske, er hvis den person du elsker, ikke er klar til at følge dig på rejsen, via egen udvikling” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Livet kysser os i bølger” / Stig Skovlind
“Når det kommer til stykket, handler et lykkeligt ægteskab om, på hvilken måde parret kommer hinanden i møde. Jo mere, de kan se på deres ægteskab med positive briller, støtte og forståelse, jo længere og bedre bliver forholdet” / Leslie Becker-Phelps
“Vi elsker at sætte os ind i, hvordan vores computere, mobiltelefoner eller biler fungerer, hvorfor så ikke også sætte os ind i, hvordan sexlivet og kærlighedslivet fungerer” / Jakob Olrik
“Prostitution og porno er eskapisme. Overspringshandlinger, der udspringer af dovenskab og forhindrer os i at se ind i os selv” / Jakob Olrik
”Vi skal frigøre os fra tanken om, at sex er en menneskeret. Det er den misforståelse, som blokerer for, at vi kan udvikle os og i stedet lære at betragte sex som noget, vi skal gøre os fortjent til” / Jakob Olrik
“At komme igennem en smertefuld oplevelse i livet, er lige som at gå armgang, du er nødt til at give slip på et tidspunkt for at komme videre” / ukendt
“Dermed sidder vi altså selv med ansvaret for at ændre tingene, og det er måske lige præcis det, der gør parforholdet så svært? Måske oven i købet så svært, at vi hellere vil droppe det på grund af kedsomhed end rulle ærmerne op og gøre noget ved det?” / Liselotte Vejborg
”Et godt og langt kærlighedsforhold, kræver samme eller forenelige værdier, livssyn og overordnede mål i livet” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Så kys det nu, det satans liv, grib det, fang det, før det er forbi!!” / Steffen Brandt
“Jeg er meget ambitiøs på mit livs vegne: Med alderen har jeg fået smag for skønhed, oprigtighed, sårbarhed og vanskelighed. Jeg gider ikke at nøjes” / Steffen Brandt
“Danske mænd er en flok hyggefisere, der tror, at kærlighed er lig med at invitere konen med på toldfrit indkøb” / Steffen Brandt
“Der kan ikke være venskab uden tillid, og ingen tillid uden integritet” / Samuel Johnson
“Kærlighed er ofte ægteskabets frugt” / Moliere
“Det er åbenbart nemmere at udskifte sin partner end at skifte sin væremåde” / Mikael Rode
“Den, der sårer andre, bekymrer sig ikke om sig selv” / Leonardo Da Vinci
“En skilsmisse er som at blive kørt over af en lastbil. Hvis man overlever, begynder man opmærksomt at se til højre og venstre” / Jean Kerr
“Styr dine lidenskaber, ellers vil de styre dig” / Horats
“Det er lige så absurd at nægte at det er muligt for en mand altid at elske den samme kvinde, som det vil være at hævde, at en berømt musiker behøver flere forskellige violiner for at spille et musikstykke eller komponere en smuk melodi” / Honoré De Balzac
“Seksuel og følelsesmæssig troskab er så fundamental en del af et parforhold (hvor andet ikke er aftalt), at tilliden, intimiteten og selvværdet tager skade ved at svigte denne troskab. Så pas på dig selv og hinanden – og på kærligheden, som fortjener vilkår, den kan vokse og næres under” / Christina Copty
“Hvis man ikke erkender sin fejl, retter op på den og lærer af den, så hæver man fejlen op i en langt højere størrelsesorden. Man narrer sig selv, bliver selvretfærdig eller finder på undskyldninger og løgnehistorier for at kunne stå ved sig selv og dermed skader det langt mere og længere ind i sjælen. Det er ikke hvad andre gør, og end ikke vores egne fejltagelser der skader mest, men den måde vi håndterer dem på” / Stephen R. Covey
“Gennem min egen personlige udvikling har jeg lært at forholde mig anderledes til den jeg er og dermed også til den han er. Jeg lærer at tage ansvar for min del af det, som ikke fungerer og fordi jeg kender mig selv og mine mønstre bedre kan jeg også sætte ham fri, til at være den han er” / Katrine Axholm
”Hvis du går ind i et forhold, med en opfattelse af, at du mister noget, i stedet for at have øje for, hvad du i stedet får, så vil du hele tiden, stå med en fod på vej ud af forholdet, og på den måde aldrig opleve den frihed, der er i at gå all in for det valg du i første omgang tog, da du valgte forholdet”
/ Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look for someone who will face them with you” / unknown
“Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world; choose the one who makes your world beautiful” / unknown
“Den, der er din ven, elsker dig, men den, der elsker dig, er ikke altid din ven. Således gør venskab altid godt, men kærlighed undertiden ondt” / ukendt
“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not” / André Gide
“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages” / Friedrich Nietzsche
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up”  / Neil Gaiman
“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own” / Robert A. Heinlein
“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you” / Friedrich Nietzsche
“I am nothing special, of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts and I’ve led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough..” / Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
“Love is like the wind, you can’t see it but you can feel it”  / Nicholas Sparks, A Walk to Remember
“Remember, we’re madly in love, so it’s all right to kiss me anytime you feel like it”  / Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games
“So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me… everyday”  / Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
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“If you allow yourself to be someone’s back-up plan, then don’t become upset when you are used as one” / Mary Jo Minute
“Commitment is an act, not a word” / Jean-Paul Sartre
“If you continue with something that hurts your partner, whether you think it’s a secret or not, your partner will at some point stop taking up the issue and it is not because it has suddenly become ok. That’s because your partner has given up and is slowly moving away from you and the relationship” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“If you push your partner away from you with what you do and you don’t stop doing it. Then you have made ​​a choice – and that choice is not your relationship” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Ligesom der aldrig kommer en god dag at blive skilt på, så kommer der heller ikke en dag, hvor det er lettere at stoppe med det du gør, som giver dig dårlig samvittighed end lige nu og her” / Christel Sonne-Rasmussen
“Never apologize for what you feel. It’s like saying sorry for being real” / ukendt
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“Kærlighed vælger ikke, hvilket græsstrå den vil falde på” / Afrikansk ordsprog
“Å, at røre ved mennesker! Fra mine hænder går strenge gennem hele mit legeme; jeg opsluger mennesker i mig. Jeg bevæger mig, trykker til, føler noget med mine fingre og er lykkelig. Med mit legeme er røre ved en andens er det højeste jeg ved” / Walt Whitman
“Kærlighed er ægteskabets morgengry, og ægteskabet er kærligheden solnedgang” / Fransk ordsprog
“I’d rather have an honest enemy than a fake friend – but most of all I want a honest love” / unknown
”Skønhed, sandhed, venskab og kærlighed – Dette er de største værdier i livet. Vi kan hverken bevise eller forklare dem, og alligevel skaber de den største stabilitet i vores liv” /  Jesse Herman Holmes
“Den kærlighedens gerning at erindre en afdød er således en gerning af den uegennyttigste, den frieste, den trofasteste kærlighed. Så gå da hen og udøv den; erindre den afdøde, og lær just derved at elske de levende uegennyttigt, frit, trofast” / Søren Kierkegaard
“There is nothing quite as sexy as a man who loves his wife – Every woman in the room wants to be her” / ukendt
“En kærlig atmosfære i dit hjem er fundamentet for dit liv” / Dalai Lama
“Kun den kan vinde kærlighed, som selv kan give den” / Vilhelm Topsøe
“Der, hvor der ingen kærlighed er, er heller ingen forstand” / Oluf Høst
“Klog og forelsket er ingen” /William Shakespeare
“Det er i kærlighedens lotteri som i ethvert andet, at man ikke kan spille på en ottendedel og samtidig forlange fuld gevinst” / Nis Petersen
“A woman has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life, to be thankful for a good one” / Marjorie Kinnan
“If you don’t want anyone to find out – don’t do it!” / ukendt
“When I count my blessings I count you twice” / an Irish blessing 
“If you succeed in cheating someone, don’t think that the person is a fool. Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved” / ukendt
“If you asked me how many times you’ve crossed my mind I would say once, because you never really left” / ukendt
“A relationship is more than just finding the right person. It’s about being the right person”  / ukendt
“A relationship without trust is like a phone without service. All you do is play games” / ukendt
“Der kan ligge en stor frihed i at forpligte sig helt. For hvis du altid holder en bagdør åben – eller bare på klem – vil du aldrig mærke den frihed, der kommer af at have sagt ja til noget af hele sit hjerte” / Sofia Manning
“Kærlighed med ærlighed er den allerbedste slags” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“A boy asked his mom: “How will I be able to find the right woman for me?” The mom answered: “Don’t worry about finding the right woman, concentrate on becoming the right man, a man who is trust worty and take responsibility for his life, he’s sayings and actions – then the right woman will fall for you” / ukendt
“Relationships should build you up, not tear you down. End relationships with people who bring you down” / ukendt
“Den som kun elsker sig selv, ender op helt uden rivaler” / ukendt
“Det er så trist at gå ved siden af den man elsker, som kun holder af” / Piet Hein
“Overbærenhed med dem man kender er som regel langt mere sjælden end medlidenhed med dem men ikke kender” / Benjamin Disraeli
“At elske dig er som at trække vejret, hvordan kan jeg lade være” / ukendt
“When a girl tells you about her problems, it does not mean that she’s complaining. It means she trusts you” / ukendt
“Try not to breake trust with your mate… Once it’s broken like fine china… U can glue it back but it’ll never be the same” / ukendt
“Trying to forget being hurt by someone you love, is like trying to remember someone you’ve never met. Simply impossible” / ukendt
“Likeing and being with someone is easy, but loving and committed with someone is’nt easy. Don’t say you love, if you’re not sure. Love is not at word it’s an action” / ukendt
“People say you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone. Truth is, you knew what you had, you just never thougth you’d loose it” / ukendt
“Be the type of person you want to meet” / ukendt
“It’s always better to accept the fact that you are not appreciated, than to insist yourself to someone who never sees your worth” / ukendt
“No man is ever worth your tears, and the one that is, will NEVER make you cry” / ukendt
“When I give you my time, I’m giving you a portion of my life that I will never get back – So don’t waste it” / ukendt
“It’s so hard to trust someone the second time around after they already gave you one reason not to trust them” / ukendt
“Never take someone for granted, hold every person close to your hearth because you might wake up one day and ralize that you’ve lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones” / ukendt
“My hands were made in such a way, that only yours will fit perfectly into them” / ukendt
“We do not fall in love with people because they are beautiful. We find them beautiful because we love them”  / ukendt
“Be with someone who knows what they have, when they have you”  / ukendt
“I don’t need a perfect one… I just need someone who can make me feel that I’m the only one” / ukendt
“Forgiveness is not something we do for other people. We do it for ourselves – to get well and move on” / ukendt
“Learn to appreciate what you have, before time makes you appreciate what you had” / ukendt
“Be honest with the people who love you – they deserve your honesty” / ukendt
“Don’t ever think a relationship is like an account you can log into and log out whenever you want” / ukendt
“In your arms I feel strength, on your face I see love, in your eyes I see tomorrow and all our tomorrows ever after” / ukendt
“To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage. And being this love and trust worthy, by what you say and what you do, not only offers you extra strength and courage, but also personal integrity “/ Lao Tzu
“Being someone’s first love may be great… But to be their last love is beyond perfect” / ukendt
“The best thing in life is finding someone who knows all  your mistakes and weaknesses and still think you are completely amazing” / ukendt
“Every moment spend with you, is like a beautiful dream come true…” / ukendt
“It’s better to have loved and lost than to live with an idiot for the rest of your life” / ukendt
“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes” / William Gibson
“Never settle for being someone’s “other” when you have the potential to be someone’s “only”…” / ukendt
“Jalousi – en urimelig anspændelse for at bevare det, der kun kan mistes, hvis det ikke er værd at bevare” / Ambrose Bierce
“Ord kan ikke stå alene, heller ikke “jeg elsker dig” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Tag ansvar for at være lige sådan et menneske som er andres tillid og kærlighed værd – hver dag” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“I wonder how many times we forgive just because we dont want to lose someone. Even if they dont deserve forgiveness” / Will Smith
“Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you” / Ukendt
“Dont waste your time giving someone a second chance, when there is someone better out there waiting for their first” / Will Smith
“The simplest way of being happy is letting go of the things that make you sad” / Will Smith
“If you tell the truth, it becomes a part of your past. If you lie, it becomes a part of your future” / Will Smith
“At any given moment you have the power to say this is not how the story is going to end” / Ukendt
“Fall in love with someone who deserves your heart, not someone who plays with it” / Ukendt
“Never play with the feelings of others because you may win the game. But you will surely lose the person for life time” / Ukendt
Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life” / Ukendt
“Every girl has her bestfriend, boyfriend and true love, but youre really lucky if they are all the same person” / Will Smith
“Sometimes you dont miss the person, you miss the memories you shared with them” / Will Smith
“The best revenge is happiness, because nothing drives people more crazy then seeing someone actually having a good life” / Will Smith
“It is simple… Never lie to someone who trust you, and never trust someone who lies to you” / Will Smith
“No one ever gets tired of loving. They just get tired of waiting, assuming, hearing lies, saying sorry and hurting” / Will Smith
“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things” / Albert Einstein
“Sometimes you have to let things go, so theres room for better things to come into your life” / Ukendt
“I cant promise you a perfect relationship, but what I can promise you is that if you are trying, I am staying” / Ukendt
“I want to be his favorite hello and his hardest goodbye” / Ukendt
“Never allow yourself to be so desperate that you end up settling for far less than what you deserve” / Ukendt
“Dont worry when I argue with you, worry when I stop because it means there is nothing left to fight for” / Ukendt
“I dont care who was before me as long as I know there is nobody during me” / Ukendt
“Love doesnt hurt. Lying cheating and screwing with peoples feelings and emotions hurts” / Ukendt
“Forgive yourself – you did the best you could at the time – When you know better you do better” / Ukendt
“If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got” / Ukendt
“I am not the girl that got away, but the girl you failed to keep” / Ukendt
“Words and hearts should be handled with care for words when spoken and heart when broken are the hardest thing to repair” / Ukendt
“You deserve to wear a smile in your heart. Not because of what you have or what you do, but because of who you are” / Ukendt
“Never take a person for granted. Hold every person close to your heart, because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a diamond when you were to  busy collecting stones” / Ukendt
“You can say sorry a million of times, say i love you as much as you want, say whatever you want, whenever you want. But if your’re not going to prove that the things you say are true, then don’t say nothing at all. Because if you can’t show it, your words don’t mean a thing” / Ukendt
”I trust you” is a better compliment than “I love you” because you may not always trust the person you love, but you always love the person you trust” / Ukendt
“Don’t say you love me, if you’re not willing to take responsibility for the promess you make when you say you do” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Sometimes, when you give up on someone, it’s not because you don’t care anymore, but because you realize they don’t” / Ukendt
“Be mindful of what you toss away, be careful of what you push away, and think hard berfore you walk away” / Ukendt
“At leve godt og lykkeligt er intet andet end at leve ærligt og retsindigt” / Cicero
“The person you take for granted today, could very well be the person you miss terribly tomorrow” / Ukendt
“Life is too short to spend with people who suck the happiness out of you” / Ukendt
“For better or worse – but not for granted” / Ukendt
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“If someone makes you miserable more than they make you happy, it doesn’t matter how much you love them, you need to let them go” / Ukendt
“Watching you walk out of my life hasn’t made me bitter or cynical about love, but rather, it has shown me that if I wanted so badly to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be whe the right one comes along” / Ukendt
“I’m holding you close enough to hurt me, but trusting you not to” / Ukendt
 “When your ex says ‘you will never find anyone like me’, reply with ‘that’s the point” / Ukendt
“A man’s biggest mistake is giving another man an opportunity to make his woman smile” / Ukendt
“Good relationships don’t just happen, they take time, patience and two people who really want to be together” / Ukendt
“Trust your heart and soul, when you feel that something is wrong, never doubt yourself… Something IS wrong” / Ukendt
“Words and hearts should be handled with care for words when spoken and hearts when broken are the hardest things to repair” / Ukendt
“I’m not the girl that got away, but the girl you failed to keep / Lora A. R
 “Det siges at mænd kan lide jagten, at fange kvinden ind. Men hvor mange er så mand nok til også at holde hendes og sin egen interesse ved lige, det er dér vatnisserne bliver sorteret fra” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Kvinder skal også tage deres ansvar for et kærlighedsforhold MED sex, som mænd skal tage ansvar for at have sex i et forhold MED kærlighed” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Er du din partners trygge energibooster eller utrygge energitapper?” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“Kærlige ord opbygger og skaber, hårde ord og tone nedbryder – Tænk før du taler” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“A man wants to be a womans first love, a woman wants to be his last” / Oscar Wilde
“Jeg elsker dig – og kun dig! Jeg lover dig, at jeg vil gøre mit absolut bedste for at holde dig interesseret i mig og mig i dig. At du kan stole på mig og at det jeg siger også er det jeg gør og omvendt. At jeg altid vil komme til dig, hvis der er noget som jeg ønsker anderledes og hvis jeg savner dig som nærhed. Fordi jeg værdsætter dig og det vi har sammen, og fordi jeg  aldrig vil risikere at  miste dig og din kærlighed i mit liv” / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
 “When I ask you to listen to a song, it’s because the lyrics mean everything I’m trying to say to you” / Ukendt
“You can’t have a relationship without any fights, but you can make your relationship worth the fight /Ukendt
“I don’t mind living in a man’s world as long as I can be a woman in it” / Marylin Monroe
“The best thing to hold onto in life is each other” / Audrey Hepburn
“You’re not gonna promise to each other that you will not dissapoint one another, because at some point you will. What is important is you don’t go away, you don’t escape, you don’t leave one another just because you were disappointed” / Ukendt
 “Trust takes years to build up, seconds to break down and forever to repair” / Ukendt
“Jeg tror ikke på selvvalgt single, for når alt kommer til alt, vil vi jo dybest set alle bare elskes” / Søren @Singledad
“Everyone deserves second chances, but not for the same mistakes” / Ukendt
“Sometimes the right person for you was there all along. You just didn’t see it because the wrong one was blocking the sight” / Ukendt
“Forebyggelse er bedre end parterapi, selvom terapi ikke skal udelukkes. Dét som ikke vedligeholdes, svækkes gradvist” / Erling Tiedemann
“If you love someone, you better prove it. Because love is not a noun to be defined, but a verb to be acted upon” / ukendt
“Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile” / Franklin P. Jones
“If you still talk about it… it’s obvious that you still care or mind” / ukendt
“If you’re given a second chance, she’s a keeper, now be a man and show her, why she should keep you” / ukendt
“Jeg tror på livet, på kærligheden og på ægteskabet – med udgangspunkt i ærligheden / Jannie Nielsen Hansen
“The sadest thing a girl can do is to dump herself down for a guy” / Emma Watson
“Ingen bør dø alene – ethvert menneske burde dø med udsigt til et kærligt ansigt” / Moder Theresa
“When you’re happy, you enjoy the music. But, when you’re sad, you understand the lyrics” / ukendt
‎”Rose, you’re no picnic, all right? You’re a spoiled little brat, even, but under that, you’re the most amazingly, astounding, wonderful girl, woman that I’ve ever known…” / fra filmen Titanic
“You don’t need to fit in or seduce a woman to make her love you. You only have to be the best man you can be. Women who are worth having don’t need you to be anything but the best version of yourself you can be. We want a man we can respect. Be him. He is you” / Mary Jo Minute

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